>"Do you think it is possible for someone to love two people (and I mean romantic, sexual, love, not the way you love your child, sister, dog or car) at the same time?"
Of course.
It's happened to me twice in my life.
Once when I was married (driven into the arms of another man because of my philandering husband) and the second time when I was engaged ( driven into the arms of another man because of my philandering fiance`)....LOL
What's new? It happens all the time.
I pick alpha males and I'm an alpha female.
But I can tell you loving two people at the same time can be soul destroying. If you keep it a secret and think you're getting away with it, it feels something like a diamond heist.
When one gets caught, all hell breaks loose.
I'm still a romantic but with my eyes wide open. To some degree, I prefer alliances with men, because then you're usually safer.......
As for "romantic love, I blame it all on the Cinderella story I read as a young girl.
Everyone can weigh in on this. Prove me wrong.