Internet Porn?- SL?
I'll be honest here, the few times I flirted with you (don't expect you to remember) were really fun for me. Until Fox made his little announcement.
My wife probably wouldn't have appreciated it much but I saw no true harm in it. One thing I value in my marriage is that fact that we have retained our individuality and support each other as individuals. Although you have to consider your partners feelings, their happiness is not your responsibility. You are responsible for your own well being.
I don't think there is harm in this guy diddling himself infront of a computer monitor unless he's lost interest in his spouse. How did she find out about it?