Replete with joy and sorrow alike. As you know, I do not subscribe to Forces Astrologic driving the circles within circles of my emotional life. It's far more complicated than that. Nothing is pure, joy can be found in sorrow, and shadows in the light.
I am sorry to hear about your friend. I will put her into my thoughts and meditations.
I understand you were trying to be playful; but you pushed a button you've pushed before. I strive to be a fair moderator and follow the rules the community has defined. When you suggest otherwise, even when jerkin' my chain, I will take offense.